Went to the NLP Seminar preview of Adam Khoo's empowerment course at NUSS Guild House. I was sold really. I would have signed up if not for the steep price of almost $2000. Seriously being able to build rapport with anyone within minutes is amazing. (The secret is your tonality - your voice control and your ability to control your body language and reaction - correction - ability to be in control of what others will immediately notice in you.)
Thinking back when I was in the train at 10+ pm, it's really a lot of common sense. Though I'm reminded that it's not that common after all. Only 5% of people in the world are committed to succeed. It is good in a sense there will be lesser competition. LOL.
If you really want something so much that you must have it - nothing will stop you. I remember Nazimah telling us the campcraft team back in 2000. Of all the things I remembered or learnt during the training sessions, I cherish that advice the most.
Beliefs -> Strategies -> Actions
Have a strong belief that you will achieve the goal that you want. Make it a big ambitious one so that it is so compelling that you will stick closely to the plan to achieve it. If actions are failing to translate to the succeses you wanted, revamp your strategies. Again and again, making sure that you learn from each failure.
One strategy is through modelling - where you find someone whom you want to emulate and follow his/her example. I knew about this ever since when I was in lower secondary. I stick myself to the scholars and learnt about how they studied and juggle their time. In an article I read about success - a Phi Beta Kappa honor student - said that she succeeded by chasing after a "white rabbit". If you have watched a dog race before, the dogged determination (lol I didn't mean the pun) was put towards chasing after the mechanical white rabbit.
Similarly, find your own white rabbit, the author of the article advised. Stick close to them and aspire to be like them. Chase after them and you will almost immediately be chasing your dreams.
Thinking back when I was in the train at 10+ pm, it's really a lot of common sense. Though I'm reminded that it's not that common after all. Only 5% of people in the world are committed to succeed. It is good in a sense there will be lesser competition. LOL.
If you really want something so much that you must have it - nothing will stop you. I remember Nazimah telling us the campcraft team back in 2000. Of all the things I remembered or learnt during the training sessions, I cherish that advice the most.
Beliefs -> Strategies -> Actions
Have a strong belief that you will achieve the goal that you want. Make it a big ambitious one so that it is so compelling that you will stick closely to the plan to achieve it. If actions are failing to translate to the succeses you wanted, revamp your strategies. Again and again, making sure that you learn from each failure.
One strategy is through modelling - where you find someone whom you want to emulate and follow his/her example. I knew about this ever since when I was in lower secondary. I stick myself to the scholars and learnt about how they studied and juggle their time. In an article I read about success - a Phi Beta Kappa honor student - said that she succeeded by chasing after a "white rabbit". If you have watched a dog race before, the dogged determination (lol I didn't mean the pun) was put towards chasing after the mechanical white rabbit.
Similarly, find your own white rabbit, the author of the article advised. Stick close to them and aspire to be like them. Chase after them and you will almost immediately be chasing your dreams.
Current Mood: 
thoughtful
thoughtfulCurrent Music: Erin Bode - Here, There and Everywhere
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